Don’t paint red flags white.Don’t paint red flags white.Those of us with anxiety or negative self talk may blame ourselves when things in our life are complicated or not going the way we want them to.It is easier for us to look inward and blame ourselves....
Last night I was texting with a friend who said, “Got the Sunday Scaries!” when describing how her sunny, unseasonably warm Sunday was going.I haven’t heard, or thought about that term for years..but I remember it so deeply. I remember how my anxiety...
Some people continue to change partners to avoid changing themselves.In our work together, we will dive deep into your side of the street. How you show up.What you do.What you believe.Why you believe it.What you value.What you want to do.What you want to think.And we...
Sometimes people ask me: “do I need to tell them I’m changing my mind?” or “do I need to tell them my perspective changed?”. The answer is no. You get to change whatever you want to change about yourself whenever you want to change it....
All through my college (and many post-college) years, I did a lot of what I thought I should do because I thought it would make me feel proud…but it actually ended up running me into the ground.All of the “good” stuff – a decent job that paid me enough to survive,...
You hear it all of the time. The best way to get over someone is to get under someone. And while yes, that’s usually pretty fun, it doesn’t actually heal the wound. It’s a bandaid. The real work resides in trying to understand what you’re...