I am growing so tired of hearing from clients and prospective clients that they’ve been told to do something. Or one way they are told to think about moving on. One way they should heal. What they need to do. What they don’t need to do. What to think. How to think…
I’ve been coaching women for a long time and I have always taken the perspective of: I am not the expert on this persons life. I know her – because she showed me her – but I am not THE expert. SHE is the expert. I am here to support her in what she tells me she wants— not shame into fitting into a bucket she might not want to be in.
Because here is the truth: if you tell someone they SHOULDN’T do something that feels really hard internally to them they will feel like they are DOING SOMETHING WRONG being themselves.
I want to be the coach you come to when you feel shamed by others.
I want to be the coach you come to when your anxiety takes over.
I want to be the coach you come to when everything you googled doesn’t make sense.
I want to be the coach you come to when everything feels hard.
I have been where you are. Healing is messy. Relationships are messy. Love is messy.
But love and relationships are a core component of life. Think about it: if you were struggling at work, would you be judging yourself so much? Would you be listening so strongly to everyone else instead of yourself?
Why is it that we judge how we are in relationships more than other areas of life? Please stop. Please take the time to figure out what is important to you, what you need, and what you want.
If you want help with that, I am here (and I love this work). Fill out a free Clarity Session form to get started!
