by admin | Feb 20, 2022 | Uncategorized
Don’t paint red flags white. Those of us with anxiety or negative self talk may blame ourselves when things in our life are complicated or not going the way we want them to. It is easier for us to look inward and blame ourselves. Seeing the truth of the matter...
by admin | Feb 19, 2022 | Uncategorized
When you hear contradicting beliefs or opinions, you’re not overwhelmed or angry: you feel able to discern for yourself. When someone is harsh, critical, or lashes out, you understand this is an indicator of their internal emotional state: not the truth of who...
by admin | Feb 19, 2022 | Uncategorized
Narcissists hold onto a lot of resentment and hatred toward those who stand up for themselves and use healthy boundaries. A narcissist feels entitled to say and do what they wish, and entitled and disrespect and hurt anyone they see as a threat. They hate anyone who...
by admin | Feb 12, 2022 | Uncategorized
Narcissists think their feelings are facts. They like to think their feelings are facts – so whatever they feel anger, rage or whatever triggered them, they believe it is justified. So when they spread lies about you, often even to you, they convince themselves...
by admin | Feb 11, 2022 | Uncategorized
A Narcissist NEEDS Outside Help — this is a non negotiable. I tell my clients: don’t trust it when a Narcissist (or abuser, or manipulator…) says they are working on themselves by themself. Think about this for a minute…their thinking got them...